Okay, so you finally meet a guy that you like and likes you back!
Now what? You go out on a date, right?!
Yes, but how long do you talk to a guy (or girl) before the big day?
It really just depends on a few factors.
1. Does he actually like you back
Now, guys can fake it till they make it. Some guys are great actors. A guy can act like he likes you, but he really DOES NOT.
Why do they do this?
Options, almost like they are keeping you on the back burner.
One way a guy SHOWS that he likes you is if he asks you out on a date. HE WILL WANT TO SEE YOU IN PERSON.
So if he is just trying to be your pen pal and it has been months of you talking and not meeting, then...you have a problem.
2, He does not have the money
Some guys think that they have to spend a lot of money on dates. Which may be the case for a particular type of female. So he could be waiting to get his money up (but I doubt it).
3. Just circumstance
For instance, you are in different locations where it is hard to meet. Maybe you live in another state, etc. So naturally, it would take longer for the two of you to go out on a date.
From my experience 9/10 times, the reason the two of you are not going out is the first circumstance. A guy does what he wants to do soooo if he is not taking you out, then he just doe not want to. But comment below any other reasons, and we can have a girl chat!
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XoXo,
Your virtual bestie
Mimi T